Dina Bonnevie never envisioned herself as a stepmother, much less to five children. However, when she married for the third time in 2012, she found herself stepping into that role.
Navigating the complexities of motherhood is challenging, and Bonnevie's experience with stepmotherhood brought its own unique set of hurdles.
Adjusting to New Roles
The veteran actress acknowledged that being a stepmother is particularly difficult when children are already grown. She recalled her early days with her late husband, DJ Savellano's children, who were in their teens and early 20s.
Being a stepmother is harder, especially when they come into your life already grown-up. You don’t know them. They might be used to a different type of discipline or upbringing, so you can’t just come in and impose your own.
Dina Bonnevie
Bonnevie took a proactive approach to build relationships with her stepchildren. She engaged in daily activities like grocery shopping, cooking, and attending parent-teacher meetings.
Parang ginampanan ko na ‘yong duty ko as a stepmom. I took that responsibility. Eventually, they got used to my style of discipline and guidance.
Dina Bonnevie
Building Connections
Over the years, her initial uncertainties transformed into genuine bonds. Despite not being called 'Mom,' her stepchildren refer to her as 'Tita D,' a title she embraces.
Bonnevie ensured she never overstepped boundaries, maintaining respect for her stepchildren's biological mother while showering them with love.
A Blended Family
Now, Bonnevie's family includes her biological children and grandchildren, along with her stepchildren. Mother’s Day holds significant meaning for her, reflecting the diverse roles she plays.
Despite her busy work schedule, she cherishes moments spent with family, expecting a celebration filled with love.
Parenting Approach
Renowned for her strong personality, Bonnevie applies a mix of strictness and warmth in her parenting.
She believes in nurturing her children while ensuring they adhere to important values.
You can only guide them; you don’t make decisions for them or live their lives for them.
Dina Bonnevie
Drawing from her own upbringing, she emphasizes the importance of affection and open communication.
Enduring Responsibility
Bonnevie recognizes that motherhood extends beyond childhood. Even as her children grow, they still seek her advice and support.
For her, the joy of motherhood remains unwavering, affirming her commitment to being there for her children at every stage of life.
Nakakatuwa na kailangan ka pa rin nila. I will always love being a mom!
Dina Bonnevie