Moshe Reyes, daughter of renowned basketball coach Chot Reyes, has carved out her own identity beyond the pressures of public life. Growing up in a competitive family environment instilled in her the values of achievement, yet it also led her to discover the importance of self-acceptance and healing.
From Competition to Collaboration
What I know about strength now is that it doesn’t always come from being able to stand on your own. A lot of our strength comes from being there for each other as a family.
Moshe Reyes, Founder of The Inner Holding
- Moshe's upbringing shaped her understanding of strength.
- She emphasizes collaboration over competition.
Moshe's new outlook is embodied in her initiative, The Inner Holding, which focuses on psychospiritual support and mindfulness. This platform represents a shift from the fast-paced, high-stakes environment of her father's basketball career to a space that prioritizes introspection and emotional growth.
Navigating Identity and Expectations
As a teenager, Moshe grappled with her identity while living under the Reyes name. The pressure to conform often led her to suppress her true self, especially as she navigated her gender-fluid and transfeminine identity. This struggle was compounded by cultural expectations around family loyalty and personal achievement.
After experiencing burnout from her pursuits, Moshe redirected her energy towards yoga and mindfulness, discovering that true fulfillment comes from within rather than from external validation.
A New Definition of Success
Success for Moshe has transformed from achieving accolades to fostering connections and supporting others. Her journey has led her to understand that vulnerability is not a weakness but a strength that allows for deeper relationships.
Through The Inner Holding, Moshe advocates for self-care as a communal practice. She believes that caring for oneself enhances the ability to support others, a message particularly resonant in Filipino culture.
Healing Through Connection
Moshe's approach emphasizes the importance of being present with others without the need to fix their problems. She encourages people to embrace their emotions, recognizing that healing is not a linear path but a journey marked by ups and downs.
By fostering an environment where emotional honesty is welcomed, Moshe aims to empower individuals to understand their own experiences better and to support those around them.
Looking Ahead
Moshe envisions a future where The Inner Holding evolves beyond her individual influence, focusing on community and shared healing. Her ultimate goal is to create a space where vulnerability is celebrated, allowing others to find their own paths to self-acceptance and fulfillment.
In her words, 'If my dad taught people how to move forward, I hope my work helps people understand that they can move forward without leaving themselves behind.'