Janella Salvador and Elisse Joson are navigating the complexities of motherhood while managing their careers in the entertainment industry. Both actresses are single moms, raising their children Jude and Felize, respectively. They emphasize the importance of being present in their kids' lives despite their busy schedules.
Salvador, who identifies primarily as a single parent, shared that her son Jude often spends more time with her. "I have to be the mom and the dad," she stated, highlighting the challenges of managing her child's emotional needs.
Joson echoed this sentiment, noting her struggle to balance being both a disciplinarian and a friend to her daughter. "Gentle parenting is important, but discipline also plays a key role," she explained.
Managing Guilt and Finding Balance
The demands of their careers sometimes lead to feelings of guilt for both mothers. "We can’t always bring our kids to work," Salvador admitted. To cope, she dedicates quality time to Jude whenever possible.
Joson prioritizes her tasks daily, ensuring that her daughter's needs are met while also fulfilling her responsibilities as a working mother. "It’s fulfilling for me to balance work and motherhood," she shared.
Understanding Love Languages
Salvador mentioned that quality time is Jude’s love language, which she nurtures by engaging him in conversations and activities. "I try to answer all his questions, no matter how random," she said.
Joson highlighted that her daughter Felize appreciates words of affirmation and quality time. She makes an effort to express her love through attention and affection, especially during times apart.
I have to make sure that she feels my presence and love even when I'm away," Joson stated.